Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
frustrated, with the bus, with myself...
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 526374" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I hadn't thought of church, I have had to be away from church for so long, that I dont rely on them at all. I had such terrible experiences with no one tolerating Q in any of the programs etc. It really made me mad and upset, I felt like they were such hypocrites. But Q just asked me this week if we could go to church. I was raised Catholic but I really dont care where we go as long as they are open. My sister has been with the Presbyterian church for a while now and finds them to do better in the acting the life not just talking about it area. </p><p></p><p>I told Q that people like to pray and do not want to be interrupted and he said he wants to pray in church too. So, maybe it is time.?</p><p></p><p>I could maybe even get our Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker to switch one day to Sunday, with all our therapies it limits their time together and it is far for her too.</p><p></p><p>HMMM......</p><p></p><p>I had been on antidepressants for a long time, much of my adulthood in fact. but for the last five years I have been off of it and have felt better than ever. I wake easier, have more energy off them etc. But when I had depression it for sure helped with those symptoms. I don't really feel depressed at that level at all, not at all hopeless or uninterested in life. Just stressed and obviously easy to tears or anger. On the outside people think I am so calm I am almost detached but that is not it, I have to stay neutral to keep Q on an even keel. I would prefer not to be on medications, I physically feel much better off them. I wont jeopardize our progress though so if I need it I would do it. I suppose I could ask if they think it is at that level but I suspect they will say yes because that is what they do.</p><p></p><p>I really do better when I can talk to someone so maybe looking for a church situation or other situation like that would be helpful. YMCA has counseling??? I had no idea, not at all what ours are known for but maybe??</p><p></p><p>Malika, I could make more of an effort to use the three times per week Q is gone to be with others, I tend to climb into bed with my phone by me waiting for that emergency call that I have to go help them. It rarely happens, but I go through that all the time because of the transition home issue. Now, he will be coming home so late that it wont be as big of an issue, the kids will be in the house at least till school ends. I will try to do better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 526374, member: 12886"] I hadn't thought of church, I have had to be away from church for so long, that I dont rely on them at all. I had such terrible experiences with no one tolerating Q in any of the programs etc. It really made me mad and upset, I felt like they were such hypocrites. But Q just asked me this week if we could go to church. I was raised Catholic but I really dont care where we go as long as they are open. My sister has been with the Presbyterian church for a while now and finds them to do better in the acting the life not just talking about it area. I told Q that people like to pray and do not want to be interrupted and he said he wants to pray in church too. So, maybe it is time.? I could maybe even get our Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker to switch one day to Sunday, with all our therapies it limits their time together and it is far for her too. HMMM...... I had been on antidepressants for a long time, much of my adulthood in fact. but for the last five years I have been off of it and have felt better than ever. I wake easier, have more energy off them etc. But when I had depression it for sure helped with those symptoms. I don't really feel depressed at that level at all, not at all hopeless or uninterested in life. Just stressed and obviously easy to tears or anger. On the outside people think I am so calm I am almost detached but that is not it, I have to stay neutral to keep Q on an even keel. I would prefer not to be on medications, I physically feel much better off them. I wont jeopardize our progress though so if I need it I would do it. I suppose I could ask if they think it is at that level but I suspect they will say yes because that is what they do. I really do better when I can talk to someone so maybe looking for a church situation or other situation like that would be helpful. YMCA has counseling??? I had no idea, not at all what ours are known for but maybe?? Malika, I could make more of an effort to use the three times per week Q is gone to be with others, I tend to climb into bed with my phone by me waiting for that emergency call that I have to go help them. It rarely happens, but I go through that all the time because of the transition home issue. Now, he will be coming home so late that it wont be as big of an issue, the kids will be in the house at least till school ends. I will try to do better. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
frustrated, with the bus, with myself...
Top