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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 526422" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>(((((hugs)))))</p><p></p><p>right now you are just very shortly past a time of great stress and strain that included an attack of your son by an employee of a public school. The entire situation you lived in for MONTHS was akin to being at war. You had to constantly fight Q's school to make them do the bare minimum and then after school hours you had an angry, upset child who is physically abusive and has limited ability to be held responsible. There has got to be some fear of Q going on and some part of you that feels guilty for feeling that way.</p><p></p><p>I DO know where you can get free, totally free, no payment allowed help. It is called a domestic violence center. You NEED it. Q's behaviors are not the typical abuser behaviors because he isn't really capable of forming intent and it is a brain problem. But that is <strong>Q's</strong> side of things. Your side involved all the same feelings and fears and fight/flight instincts of most any other abused person. You can learn how to work through these and the DV center CAN help you. I strongly urge you to call and make an intake appointment. STRONGLY. </p><p></p><p>You also need to talk to your doctor. I don't know if you are in menopause/perimenopause or whatever, but it can also cause a LOT of what you are describing. That can be helped plus there are some things you should do for your health like reg mammograms and otehr screenings. the doctor can get the referrals done and can check your hormone levels. it may be that an estrogen supplement makes a giant difference. </p><p></p><p>Lexapro is still fairly expensive, but if you need an antidepressant and lexapro worked for you, consider asking the doctor for citalopram. It is on the walmart $4 list and is very closely related to lexapro. Usually is one works very well, a closely related a/d will also work. I knwo it had worked this way for my husband and kids. </p><p></p><p>Sending lots of hugs. I am sorry you are so miserable. (((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 526422, member: 1233"] (((((hugs))))) right now you are just very shortly past a time of great stress and strain that included an attack of your son by an employee of a public school. The entire situation you lived in for MONTHS was akin to being at war. You had to constantly fight Q's school to make them do the bare minimum and then after school hours you had an angry, upset child who is physically abusive and has limited ability to be held responsible. There has got to be some fear of Q going on and some part of you that feels guilty for feeling that way. I DO know where you can get free, totally free, no payment allowed help. It is called a domestic violence center. You NEED it. Q's behaviors are not the typical abuser behaviors because he isn't really capable of forming intent and it is a brain problem. But that is [B]Q's[/B] side of things. Your side involved all the same feelings and fears and fight/flight instincts of most any other abused person. You can learn how to work through these and the DV center CAN help you. I strongly urge you to call and make an intake appointment. STRONGLY. You also need to talk to your doctor. I don't know if you are in menopause/perimenopause or whatever, but it can also cause a LOT of what you are describing. That can be helped plus there are some things you should do for your health like reg mammograms and otehr screenings. the doctor can get the referrals done and can check your hormone levels. it may be that an estrogen supplement makes a giant difference. Lexapro is still fairly expensive, but if you need an antidepressant and lexapro worked for you, consider asking the doctor for citalopram. It is on the walmart $4 list and is very closely related to lexapro. Usually is one works very well, a closely related a/d will also work. I knwo it had worked this way for my husband and kids. Sending lots of hugs. I am sorry you are so miserable. (((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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