Buddy... no. blinkin. way.
I know of a family where... they had to have 24-hr police alarm buttons - direct, 100% immediate police dispatch - because of a kid. In that case, this was after the kid was taken out of the home (likely Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), foster kid). But still... to say that "nobody" has gone through DV because of a kid?
no. blinkin. way.