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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 751438" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I don't understand. Do others feel the right to pass judgement on you? If so, who are they to do this? Do you feel this is appropriate?</p><p></p><p>Do you have to justify yourself to others? Who walks in your shoes, that they could see your situation?</p><p>I am in this exact situation. </p><p></p><p>I began with this position, believing I could have control over my son, if I set a limit. That was because I gave very little importance to what I felt, what I needed. I located myself in him. </p><p></p><p>It's still very hard for me. But the locus of control has shifted to me. And it's still very hard. Because the consequences of boundaries are that my son leave. And with that, I feel that part of me leaves. Like so many of us here, I have not yet found a way to be whole, when he is not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 751438, member: 18958"] I don't understand. Do others feel the right to pass judgement on you? If so, who are they to do this? Do you feel this is appropriate? Do you have to justify yourself to others? Who walks in your shoes, that they could see your situation? I am in this exact situation. I began with this position, believing I could have control over my son, if I set a limit. That was because I gave very little importance to what I felt, what I needed. I located myself in him. It's still very hard for me. But the locus of control has shifted to me. And it's still very hard. Because the consequences of boundaries are that my son leave. And with that, I feel that part of me leaves. Like so many of us here, I have not yet found a way to be whole, when he is not. [/QUOTE]
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