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Gave daughter 2 weeks to move out
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<blockquote data-quote="strangeworld" data-source="post: 757332" data-attributes="member: 22313"><p>Thanks again for wisdom and support. She called yesterday saung she wants to pick up some of her things. Ok. Calls back crying I can't understand her and I got frustrated and yelled "I can't understand what you are saying" she hung up and I called back apologizing for yelling. She started texting...you know how it goes. My husband gotm on the phone with her boyfriend and he said she bought a half gallon of vodka that morning. </p><p></p><p>I sent her a text stating that until she goes to detox/rehab/dual diagnosis department at the hospital (5 blocks away...she can walk), I do not want contact. Insurance will pay. Then starts the texts about the whole reason she is this way is basically I was never there for her as a kid and the last three years have been traumatizing because of 1: her cat died. 2: the domestic violence incident that happened where he pushed her and she lost her tooth 3: the wild fire that burned down our house..she was there alone for a while but I had called a neighbor who went over to reassure her she would have a way out if her dad didn't get there in time. Yes its is all traumatizing. I never minimized it. The dv incident...I would never have helped her to get the protective order removed if she hadn't begged me and led me to believe it was partially her fault what happened. She was off the deep end long before these incidents. The guilting me is making me sick. I was there for her as a kid...always. At puberty, she became withdrawn and it was very hard to talk to her. We thought it was teen phase. So basically it doesn't even matter of I was a good enough mom and did my best, she perceives it as all my fault and that's her reality. I blocked her because she just won't stop lashing out. So because she thinks of herself as a victim, she should never have to deal with life and we should all just accept her belligerent behavior.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="strangeworld, post: 757332, member: 22313"] Thanks again for wisdom and support. She called yesterday saung she wants to pick up some of her things. Ok. Calls back crying I can't understand her and I got frustrated and yelled "I can't understand what you are saying" she hung up and I called back apologizing for yelling. She started texting...you know how it goes. My husband gotm on the phone with her boyfriend and he said she bought a half gallon of vodka that morning. I sent her a text stating that until she goes to detox/rehab/dual diagnosis department at the hospital (5 blocks away...she can walk), I do not want contact. Insurance will pay. Then starts the texts about the whole reason she is this way is basically I was never there for her as a kid and the last three years have been traumatizing because of 1: her cat died. 2: the domestic violence incident that happened where he pushed her and she lost her tooth 3: the wild fire that burned down our house..she was there alone for a while but I had called a neighbor who went over to reassure her she would have a way out if her dad didn't get there in time. Yes its is all traumatizing. I never minimized it. The dv incident...I would never have helped her to get the protective order removed if she hadn't begged me and led me to believe it was partially her fault what happened. She was off the deep end long before these incidents. The guilting me is making me sick. I was there for her as a kid...always. At puberty, she became withdrawn and it was very hard to talk to her. We thought it was teen phase. So basically it doesn't even matter of I was a good enough mom and did my best, she perceives it as all my fault and that's her reality. I blocked her because she just won't stop lashing out. So because she thinks of herself as a victim, she should never have to deal with life and we should all just accept her belligerent behavior. [/QUOTE]
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