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George Zimmerman arrested...no surprise to me
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 612554" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>If you know someone that is being abused ......don't get so frustrated with their situation that YOU walk away from them and give up. Every single day I take calls from men and women who are CONSISTANTLY calling 911 daily, every other day, once or twice a week, every other week, twice a month, once a month - from the same or DIFFERENT lovers. The biggest misnomer for most of these people (and myself at one time) is - If I GET AWAY from THEM the problem(s) will be over. What they fail to UNDERSTAND is that THEY THEMSELVES ARE THE PROBLEM as well. Just because the abuser leaves doesn't mean the problem is DONE. If that person NEVER gets help or counseling or therapy??? The chances that they will pick ANOTHER mate LIKE the one they just left are VERY, VERY high - and then the cycle repeats itself and if children are involved the cycle repeats itself through<u><strong> GENERATIONS</strong></u>. Then there is the old adage "Well we got the kids out in "time". FACT... Children remember what they hear and feel as early as the womb. </p><p></p><p>I have no doubts Zimmerman is a product of his environment. IMVHO - the fact that he KEEPS re-offending says to me that he ENJOYS the attention he gets/got. I think he's a very damaged and twisted individual that believes he's more 'untouchable' than 'lucky'. Whatever complex he suffers from will catch up with someone who feels justice wasn't served soon enough and then it will be a day when the world will have to stand there and ask itself how human am I because we may utter the words "oh well, or good' because we were angered over one loss so we fixed it with another one. The true loss there will be that nothing was solved again and no one really paid for the pain suffered by the parents left behind to mourn.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 612554, member: 4964"] If you know someone that is being abused ......don't get so frustrated with their situation that YOU walk away from them and give up. Every single day I take calls from men and women who are CONSISTANTLY calling 911 daily, every other day, once or twice a week, every other week, twice a month, once a month - from the same or DIFFERENT lovers. The biggest misnomer for most of these people (and myself at one time) is - If I GET AWAY from THEM the problem(s) will be over. What they fail to UNDERSTAND is that THEY THEMSELVES ARE THE PROBLEM as well. Just because the abuser leaves doesn't mean the problem is DONE. If that person NEVER gets help or counseling or therapy??? The chances that they will pick ANOTHER mate LIKE the one they just left are VERY, VERY high - and then the cycle repeats itself and if children are involved the cycle repeats itself through[U][B] GENERATIONS[/B][/U]. Then there is the old adage "Well we got the kids out in "time". FACT... Children remember what they hear and feel as early as the womb. I have no doubts Zimmerman is a product of his environment. IMVHO - the fact that he KEEPS re-offending says to me that he ENJOYS the attention he gets/got. I think he's a very damaged and twisted individual that believes he's more 'untouchable' than 'lucky'. Whatever complex he suffers from will catch up with someone who feels justice wasn't served soon enough and then it will be a day when the world will have to stand there and ask itself how human am I because we may utter the words "oh well, or good' because we were angered over one loss so we fixed it with another one. The true loss there will be that nothing was solved again and no one really paid for the pain suffered by the parents left behind to mourn. [/QUOTE]
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