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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 632613" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Now THAT reminds me of 36 and 36 no longer talks to me that way because I won't talk to him if he does. I hang up. He knows in advance I will do it too so it has made a big difference.</p><p></p><p>However since your son (as well as 36) are fruitfully employed that is truly no reason for either to live at home with daddy and mommy. 36 is banned from ever living at home with us again for reasons like that, only he has also threatened me. Still...no reason for him to be home. And no reason for your son to be home with you. That's just plain ungrateful and mean. He doesn't like you? You're crazy (kind of a lol with HIS behavior). Let him live without you and pay for 100% of his own things. </p><p></p><p>If this man were not your son, would you have anything to do with him? If not, you are being abused and nobody, not even your own adult child, should be able to abuse you. </p><p></p><p>Be good to yourself and talk about when he is going to have to pack his things. There is no excuse for anyone to talk to you that way, including him. Respect yourself and set boundaries. If he won't respect your boundaries, I hope you tell him his time living with you is over. Hugs for your hurting mommy heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 632613, member: 1550"] Now THAT reminds me of 36 and 36 no longer talks to me that way because I won't talk to him if he does. I hang up. He knows in advance I will do it too so it has made a big difference. However since your son (as well as 36) are fruitfully employed that is truly no reason for either to live at home with daddy and mommy. 36 is banned from ever living at home with us again for reasons like that, only he has also threatened me. Still...no reason for him to be home. And no reason for your son to be home with you. That's just plain ungrateful and mean. He doesn't like you? You're crazy (kind of a lol with HIS behavior). Let him live without you and pay for 100% of his own things. If this man were not your son, would you have anything to do with him? If not, you are being abused and nobody, not even your own adult child, should be able to abuse you. Be good to yourself and talk about when he is going to have to pack his things. There is no excuse for anyone to talk to you that way, including him. Respect yourself and set boundaries. If he won't respect your boundaries, I hope you tell him his time living with you is over. Hugs for your hurting mommy heart. [/QUOTE]
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