My middle son is an ungrateful person. He thinks it's our duty to pay his bills while he banks all his money. He graduated from college and has a good job. Prior to that, we paid for the phone, shared our car with him when he came home on weekends, paid his insurance, not to mention college tuition. Now that he makes money to support himself, we expect him to pay his own bills. He can give us money toward our phone, and he has got to buy himself a car and insurance. Today I told him to ask people at work about what type of car insurance they have, they offer a discount, it's a government job. He blew up at me. He says that I don't pay any of his bills. (On what planet, buddy?) Then he started to tell me he "is calling dad" to tell him how crazy I am. I told him he has to give me my car back (he borrowed it for the summer and I rode my bike to my summer job) and buy his own by Sept. 2, my first day back. He told me I should get an additional job, get off my lazy ass and then he called me a piece of [email protected]@@ a few times. I kept ignoring him after that but have been crying. He works in another state Monday though Thursday, renting a room for those days. Then he stays here where we pay for all his food and everything. He is so ungrateful, mean and rude. There is more of this behavior but I am truly nothing in this kids eyes. It is sad. He doesn't even help husband mow the lawn, because he's a true creep. He says he doesn't live here. I just needed to get that off my chest. I'm going to read my book and enjoy the day. I just ignored him, I don't go back and forth yelling at people ever. It just feels like a punch in my heart.