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I am so sorry that your family are speaking to you like this. It sounds like husband is emotionally abusing you. Is there some way you could get away for a few weeks, visit a relative or friend out of town? It might be helpful to be able to detach and give yourself some time to think clearly and figure out how to deal with this long term, and think about your options. If you expect to be treated better, but keep being treated badly, it is extremely damaging to your emotional and physical health.