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getting hit with the wishy washies again
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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 155781" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>A good read for you right now might be "Co-dependent No More". (I think that is the name of the book). It sounds like you need to be seriously setting your own boundaries and laying down the lay for yourself in what you know are healthy feelings, and what you know are dysfunctional co-dependent feelings.</p><p>Remember the body's feelings are not necessarily to be acted on, only felt. It is the more superior brain that gets to choose which ones it deems worthy to be implemented.</p><p>Breaking up with someone unhealthy is the worst, I have been there done that. I would suggest refusing to feel at this exact moment, until your feelings can come into alignment with your healthy, rational brain's decisions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 155781, member: 3301"] A good read for you right now might be "Co-dependent No More". (I think that is the name of the book). It sounds like you need to be seriously setting your own boundaries and laying down the lay for yourself in what you know are healthy feelings, and what you know are dysfunctional co-dependent feelings. Remember the body's feelings are not necessarily to be acted on, only felt. It is the more superior brain that gets to choose which ones it deems worthy to be implemented. Breaking up with someone unhealthy is the worst, I have been there done that. I would suggest refusing to feel at this exact moment, until your feelings can come into alignment with your healthy, rational brain's decisions. [/QUOTE]
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