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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 584097" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Wiped, that's so true. Q had the best day yesterday, so much fun with his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker in the evening, came home smiled and returned my " hi" at the bottom of the stairs and by the top shoved me, started getting loud, etc. He blocked me from getting away started saying he was mad about something that hadn't happened, then when I said stop or.....x would happen...</p><p>He got locked on saying if I had never said that he wouldn't be mad. </p><p></p><p>This could be seizure activity and happily he never got injury level aggressive plus it was all but over in ten minutes. Still, I didn't feel like having happy talk with him. This morning I don't want to make him hot breakfast ( which he can do himself) etc. I realize he maybe was truly not able to control his feelings which he translates into anger toward me, but the emotional turmoil and self talk I have to do to rise above it is sometimes close to not possible. ( on a feelings and ptsd level at least) </p><p>Plus, how he remembers it is I pushed mom around and she didn't care, I can vent my feelings on her any time I want to. So, I can't reassure him and say it's ok. (Tried that long ago) He obviously won't have major consequences but he can pour his own cereal and last night we did not spend quality time talking, I wasn't in the mood. </p><p></p><p>Professionals have no idea how to help parents going thru this. Either there is blame, confusion if you do want to continue parenting your child, accusation if you don't, or disbelief or.... big big holes in the system.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 584097, member: 12886"] Wiped, that's so true. Q had the best day yesterday, so much fun with his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker in the evening, came home smiled and returned my " hi" at the bottom of the stairs and by the top shoved me, started getting loud, etc. He blocked me from getting away started saying he was mad about something that hadn't happened, then when I said stop or.....x would happen... He got locked on saying if I had never said that he wouldn't be mad. This could be seizure activity and happily he never got injury level aggressive plus it was all but over in ten minutes. Still, I didn't feel like having happy talk with him. This morning I don't want to make him hot breakfast ( which he can do himself) etc. I realize he maybe was truly not able to control his feelings which he translates into anger toward me, but the emotional turmoil and self talk I have to do to rise above it is sometimes close to not possible. ( on a feelings and ptsd level at least) Plus, how he remembers it is I pushed mom around and she didn't care, I can vent my feelings on her any time I want to. So, I can't reassure him and say it's ok. (Tried that long ago) He obviously won't have major consequences but he can pour his own cereal and last night we did not spend quality time talking, I wasn't in the mood. Professionals have no idea how to help parents going thru this. Either there is blame, confusion if you do want to continue parenting your child, accusation if you don't, or disbelief or.... big big holes in the system. [/QUOTE]
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