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Gfg32 update --Should I send him an email?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 621597" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Well SS it sounds as if you emailing him and offering him resources is what your heart requires you do........... and that is what is important to do. I have made those kind of choices along the way too, sometimes we have to just go with our gut instinct. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Have you ever vehemently refused his demands to this degree before? They do tend to up that ante to the max with whatever they think will work. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>You DO have a handle on it SS, you've gotten a lot stronger and you and husband have done an excellent job of creating a united front, of putting your needs and wants back on the table and of learning some new and difficult detachment tools. Our difficult child's just keep improving their tactics in trying to keep us hostages to their demands........but you've gotten a lot better at recognizing those too. Remember this is not a linear process, it goes sideways a lot.........but we do keep moving along and learning and growing..........and you are doing <u>all</u> of that. </p><p></p><p>It's hard SS, it's really hard. And, you know what? <em>You are always doing your very best and that is all any of us can ask of ourselves.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Sending you hugs and warm thoughts for peace of mind and comfort to find you and husband.........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 621597, member: 13542"] Well SS it sounds as if you emailing him and offering him resources is what your heart requires you do........... and that is what is important to do. I have made those kind of choices along the way too, sometimes we have to just go with our gut instinct. Have you ever vehemently refused his demands to this degree before? They do tend to up that ante to the max with whatever they think will work. You DO have a handle on it SS, you've gotten a lot stronger and you and husband have done an excellent job of creating a united front, of putting your needs and wants back on the table and of learning some new and difficult detachment tools. Our difficult child's just keep improving their tactics in trying to keep us hostages to their demands........but you've gotten a lot better at recognizing those too. Remember this is not a linear process, it goes sideways a lot.........but we do keep moving along and learning and growing..........and you are doing [U]all[/U] of that. It's hard SS, it's really hard. And, you know what? [I]You are always doing your very best and that is all any of us can ask of ourselves. [/I] Sending you hugs and warm thoughts for peace of mind and comfort to find you and husband......... [/QUOTE]
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