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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 571973" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Thanks all. We will NOT be answering his calls. If he shows up, he will be told to leave or we will call the police. I hate having to do this as he will have niece with him, but that is HIS choice for HIS child, not my choice for my children. He will not push it if we call the cops. He knows that he was truly lucky that he got his felonies expunged some years ago after completing quite a few yrs of probation and rehab. He wants full custody, esp as his ex is remarrying. So any brushes with the cops will not help that. </p><p></p><p>I am sure he is still delusional, and is trying this to see if I can just somehow forget and allow him to victimize us all over again. After all, family is forever and family cannot cut ties. At least in his world. Of course in his world he has nothing to apologize for, or to make amends for, and saying "I'm sorry" on the rare occasions he does is supposed to create instant amnesia but wrongs that he perceives are held against you forever. </p><p></p><p>This is why we will NOT interact iwth him. I am sure it will again upset my mother and father, but that is their issue, not mine. </p><p></p><p>I find it sad that no one but me has ever even hinted to him that he needs treatment for mental illness. Not just adhd treatment, real treatment for his problems. AA doesn't fix mental illness, it just helps you be sober in your mentally ill state. He used to see a psychiatrist here, and I know she diagnosis'd more than just adhd. I know because she was my psychiatrist first and she asked me to see another psychiatrist because she knew bro would just not get any treatment and she was willing to do what she could and let hm pay her with tree trimming, firewood and other things. I agreed but I know that when she even hinted that their might be other things going on with him, he freaked and thought the govt was trying to get his records to do something or to make him do soemthing or to take custody of his child away from him. Paranoia anyone? </p><p></p><p>It greatly saddens me to have this happen again. It also infuriates me. I was finally making some progress with the panic attacks that the thought of going to my parents brings on, and now? More reason for them. That is what prozac is for, I guess.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 571973, member: 1233"] Thanks all. We will NOT be answering his calls. If he shows up, he will be told to leave or we will call the police. I hate having to do this as he will have niece with him, but that is HIS choice for HIS child, not my choice for my children. He will not push it if we call the cops. He knows that he was truly lucky that he got his felonies expunged some years ago after completing quite a few yrs of probation and rehab. He wants full custody, esp as his ex is remarrying. So any brushes with the cops will not help that. I am sure he is still delusional, and is trying this to see if I can just somehow forget and allow him to victimize us all over again. After all, family is forever and family cannot cut ties. At least in his world. Of course in his world he has nothing to apologize for, or to make amends for, and saying "I'm sorry" on the rare occasions he does is supposed to create instant amnesia but wrongs that he perceives are held against you forever. This is why we will NOT interact iwth him. I am sure it will again upset my mother and father, but that is their issue, not mine. I find it sad that no one but me has ever even hinted to him that he needs treatment for mental illness. Not just adhd treatment, real treatment for his problems. AA doesn't fix mental illness, it just helps you be sober in your mentally ill state. He used to see a psychiatrist here, and I know she diagnosis'd more than just adhd. I know because she was my psychiatrist first and she asked me to see another psychiatrist because she knew bro would just not get any treatment and she was willing to do what she could and let hm pay her with tree trimming, firewood and other things. I agreed but I know that when she even hinted that their might be other things going on with him, he freaked and thought the govt was trying to get his records to do something or to make him do soemthing or to take custody of his child away from him. Paranoia anyone? It greatly saddens me to have this happen again. It also infuriates me. I was finally making some progress with the panic attacks that the thought of going to my parents brings on, and now? More reason for them. That is what prozac is for, I guess. [/QUOTE]
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