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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 420842" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>terry yea lol you skipped a few beats........... it's been crazy. long story short she's leaving, we gave ultimatium can't spell either follow rules or you have to go it's too unhealthy for all. she chose to go. mexico, vacations with her new set of friends etc. just craziness.</p><p> </p><p>anyway supposedly sh'es coming today to get her stuff, we havent' seen her in days. so if she doesnt' show though by late afternoon i have to pack it up and put it outside. didn't want to have to do that, yet have to stick to my guns. she's been spiraling now for a while. hope your doing ok.</p><p> </p><p>Janet - one of the great things about being part of everything here is it's a safe place to vent, non judgemental etc and yes there will be so much advice thrown my way and great people who take the time to give me that advice due to caring. yet i'm feeling my way thru it, it's all new for me, i have to take from the advice what i want and leave the rest and do what i feel is right. maybe i'm making a mistake maybe i'm not. i just have to go with what feels right in my gut now. filling out those doctor's felt right. at least its' covered and an option for her. won't be handling it from here on out, that'll be up to her now if she choses to maintain it etc.</p><p> </p><p>letting go as i'm sure you know is a process, i'm not going to be great at it in the beginning, it takes time. i think i'm doing ok right now to be honest. i'Tourette's Syndrome been a hard year for me and my family so very much going on, difficult child sick in two hospitals, the husband, the dogs you name it. to me it's the year of cleaning up all the junk. i have a strong feeling by next year i'll sit back and say ok last year really suxd but look where i am now or my life is now, difficult child etc.</p><p> </p><p>as you know i may get kicked down yet i'm all about turning lemons into lemonade i just need a little more time with this one. have some issues to work thru, hence therapy for this issue on monday. i'm not incoherent, i don't know i was able to read my stuff ok lol. maybe i'm bouncing a bit lack of sleep and tremendous stress will do it to you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> got some sleep last night. just hoping she comes because her rooms a mess a huge mess and i don't want to spend my day packing up her junk to be honest.</p><p> </p><p>weather's bad here so i think it's going to be a movie day and ordering in for me. no great plans just to take it easy.</p><p> </p><p>one more thing, sorry long whether you guys think i'm making the right detatchment choices or not it's still all good you guys took the time to write it down, think it out and thats' what's so great about here and i appreciate the words, advice and support as always i truly do! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 420842, member: 4514"] terry yea lol you skipped a few beats........... it's been crazy. long story short she's leaving, we gave ultimatium can't spell either follow rules or you have to go it's too unhealthy for all. she chose to go. mexico, vacations with her new set of friends etc. just craziness. anyway supposedly sh'es coming today to get her stuff, we havent' seen her in days. so if she doesnt' show though by late afternoon i have to pack it up and put it outside. didn't want to have to do that, yet have to stick to my guns. she's been spiraling now for a while. hope your doing ok. Janet - one of the great things about being part of everything here is it's a safe place to vent, non judgemental etc and yes there will be so much advice thrown my way and great people who take the time to give me that advice due to caring. yet i'm feeling my way thru it, it's all new for me, i have to take from the advice what i want and leave the rest and do what i feel is right. maybe i'm making a mistake maybe i'm not. i just have to go with what feels right in my gut now. filling out those doctor's felt right. at least its' covered and an option for her. won't be handling it from here on out, that'll be up to her now if she choses to maintain it etc. letting go as i'm sure you know is a process, i'm not going to be great at it in the beginning, it takes time. i think i'm doing ok right now to be honest. i'Tourette's Syndrome been a hard year for me and my family so very much going on, difficult child sick in two hospitals, the husband, the dogs you name it. to me it's the year of cleaning up all the junk. i have a strong feeling by next year i'll sit back and say ok last year really suxd but look where i am now or my life is now, difficult child etc. as you know i may get kicked down yet i'm all about turning lemons into lemonade i just need a little more time with this one. have some issues to work thru, hence therapy for this issue on monday. i'm not incoherent, i don't know i was able to read my stuff ok lol. maybe i'm bouncing a bit lack of sleep and tremendous stress will do it to you :) got some sleep last night. just hoping she comes because her rooms a mess a huge mess and i don't want to spend my day packing up her junk to be honest. weather's bad here so i think it's going to be a movie day and ordering in for me. no great plans just to take it easy. one more thing, sorry long whether you guys think i'm making the right detatchment choices or not it's still all good you guys took the time to write it down, think it out and thats' what's so great about here and i appreciate the words, advice and support as always i truly do! :) [/QUOTE]
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