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<blockquote data-quote="GoingNorth" data-source="post: 163850" data-attributes="member: 1963"><p>Busywend, yeah...keeping a good relationship going takes a huge amt of work. I'm not sure if it is because I'm both on the spectrum and bipolar, or what (and hence spend a lot of time in therapy), but I've always been aware of the work required.</p><p></p><p>I KNOW how lucky I was to hook up with husband though I do wish sometimes that I could've been a "better" wife to him. Living with and loving me could not have been easy.</p><p></p><p>Yeah...it'll be six years coming up. LDH died the day before my birthday and his memorial service was on what would've been our 20th wedding anniversary.</p><p></p><p>We had 25 good years together--the relationship no one thought would work. And, if I had it to do over again...well, there's some things knowing what I know now, that I would've changed, I would've still done it all again...right to the bitter end.</p><p></p><p>I promise that if I "hook up" again, you'll be the first to know...right after I figure it out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GoingNorth, post: 163850, member: 1963"] Busywend, yeah...keeping a good relationship going takes a huge amt of work. I'm not sure if it is because I'm both on the spectrum and bipolar, or what (and hence spend a lot of time in therapy), but I've always been aware of the work required. I KNOW how lucky I was to hook up with husband though I do wish sometimes that I could've been a "better" wife to him. Living with and loving me could not have been easy. Yeah...it'll be six years coming up. LDH died the day before my birthday and his memorial service was on what would've been our 20th wedding anniversary. We had 25 good years together--the relationship no one thought would work. And, if I had it to do over again...well, there's some things knowing what I know now, that I would've changed, I would've still done it all again...right to the bitter end. I promise that if I "hook up" again, you'll be the first to know...right after I figure it out. [/QUOTE]
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