Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Going to the brooms...
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 419180"><p>You must love husband very much to put up with what you have. He is so lucky to have you. I believe he *can* change, he is *not* his mom. The first step is, he has to want to change. And as I read in another thread and forum, to affect real results, there has to be instrinsic motivation involved. I guess the assumption there might be that by nature he wants to live in a clean, clutter free existance. How difficult and frustrating. </p><p></p><p>As it is I fight both husband and manster's natural tendencies towards clutter. I suspect that's part of the ADD. I accused manster of being a horder the other day when he wouldn't let me throw away a broken knick knack. He insisted it was not hording, it was because he was an artist and he might use it for a project. Darn if he didn't make a sculpture out of it the next day to prove his point.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. I'm sure wishing you the best here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 419180"] You must love husband very much to put up with what you have. He is so lucky to have you. I believe he *can* change, he is *not* his mom. The first step is, he has to want to change. And as I read in another thread and forum, to affect real results, there has to be instrinsic motivation involved. I guess the assumption there might be that by nature he wants to live in a clean, clutter free existance. How difficult and frustrating. As it is I fight both husband and manster's natural tendencies towards clutter. I suspect that's part of the ADD. I accused manster of being a horder the other day when he wouldn't let me throw away a broken knick knack. He insisted it was not hording, it was because he was an artist and he might use it for a project. Darn if he didn't make a sculpture out of it the next day to prove his point. Hang in there. I'm sure wishing you the best here. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Going to the brooms...
Top