wow. now that would be cute and endearing if they were ina box in the attic with his name marked on it lol. sheesh shari i don't know...... wish i could help.
cleaning person an option? sounds insane yet once a week come thru do a big huge cleaning to avoid this one issue that's got you guys stuck. now granted there are other issues the cars, etc. yet this one thing that drives you mad, and i dont' blame you. you work all day long etc.
when i worked ft (ahh seems like forever ago) i know alot think i'm lucky and i guess i am. yet well grass isnt' always greener..... anyway back to point i'd walk in to kids coats all over the flr. blocking front door as i got in, dishes piled up in sink, games, toys, 5 kids school books everywhere. i was like you gotta be kidding me??
well shortly therafter i stopped working due to difficult child, yet point is i dont' know how the heck we would of solved that one. to him he works his own job why should he do that stuff to that extent??