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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 419196" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>Shari (hugs) It's very difficult to change someone else, or even expect them to change much. Your husband changes very minimally and it usually short-lived. Think about how you want your life to be like in a year, or 5 or 10. Then think how you are going to get there. You're the major breadwinner in the family, really you are the only breadwinner because he spends most of his paycheck on himself. That is huge! You really are not dependant on him. You can alleviate all this stress, you can come up with a good plan. I personally would get so upset having that fridge and dryer just sitting there, and the roof not done that I'd have to leave. (But first I'd get a lawyer to have a legal seperation to protect everything I do have) You will feel better with a plan in place. I'm not really saying a plan to leave, but maybe a plan to stay. Maybe make a list of all the good things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 419196, member: 2668"] Shari (hugs) It's very difficult to change someone else, or even expect them to change much. Your husband changes very minimally and it usually short-lived. Think about how you want your life to be like in a year, or 5 or 10. Then think how you are going to get there. You're the major breadwinner in the family, really you are the only breadwinner because he spends most of his paycheck on himself. That is huge! You really are not dependant on him. You can alleviate all this stress, you can come up with a good plan. I personally would get so upset having that fridge and dryer just sitting there, and the roof not done that I'd have to leave. (But first I'd get a lawyer to have a legal seperation to protect everything I do have) You will feel better with a plan in place. I'm not really saying a plan to leave, but maybe a plan to stay. Maybe make a list of all the good things. [/QUOTE]
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