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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 419222" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Shari--</p><p> </p><p>The hoarding thing is yet another indication of depression. It's not "laziness" to hoard....it's a reluctance to let go of anything 'just in case'....and then the accumulated stash becomes physically and mentally overwhelming. There are too many "loose ends" and "unfinished projects"...and then anxiety and more depression about being a failure... It's a vicious cycle.</p><p> </p><p>In your shoes - my ultimatum to husband might be that he MUST fully participate in therapy and any recommended treatment. I'd hate to lose a marriage over something "treatable"...</p><p> </p><p>but on the other hand - if he is unwilling to really help himself? There is not much to stay for...</p><p> </p><p>((((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 419222, member: 6546"] Shari-- The hoarding thing is yet another indication of depression. It's not "laziness" to hoard....it's a reluctance to let go of anything 'just in case'....and then the accumulated stash becomes physically and mentally overwhelming. There are too many "loose ends" and "unfinished projects"...and then anxiety and more depression about being a failure... It's a vicious cycle. In your shoes - my ultimatum to husband might be that he MUST fully participate in therapy and any recommended treatment. I'd hate to lose a marriage over something "treatable"... but on the other hand - if he is unwilling to really help himself? There is not much to stay for... ((((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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