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<blockquote data-quote="muttmeister" data-source="post: 357333" data-attributes="member: 135"><p>Sending understanding hugs your way.</p><p> </p><p>I was married to an alcoholic and I ended up divorcing him. He, however, was not clean and sober so your situation is different than mine but I do understand the wondering and waiting for the other shoe to drop, even if it never does.</p><p> </p><p>I think getting away for a few days is good advice. It would give you time to think more clearly. After you've had time to evaluate your situation for awhile, it might be time to see a good counselor....not to tell you what to do but to help you figure out what is best for you. Staying with somebody who has cleaned up their act is great but staying because of guilt about leaving is not so great. ONly you can decide what is best for you but sometimes a different perspective is helpful. I wouldn't jump into any rash decisions but I also wouldn't just "settle" for the status quo because somebody else thinks you should. Take some time, think hard, get some good advice, and, if you lean that way, a little prayer can help too. </p><p> </p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="muttmeister, post: 357333, member: 135"] Sending understanding hugs your way. I was married to an alcoholic and I ended up divorcing him. He, however, was not clean and sober so your situation is different than mine but I do understand the wondering and waiting for the other shoe to drop, even if it never does. I think getting away for a few days is good advice. It would give you time to think more clearly. After you've had time to evaluate your situation for awhile, it might be time to see a good counselor....not to tell you what to do but to help you figure out what is best for you. Staying with somebody who has cleaned up their act is great but staying because of guilt about leaving is not so great. ONly you can decide what is best for you but sometimes a different perspective is helpful. I wouldn't jump into any rash decisions but I also wouldn't just "settle" for the status quo because somebody else thinks you should. Take some time, think hard, get some good advice, and, if you lean that way, a little prayer can help too. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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