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good morning friends; i think i'm in denial.....
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 128574" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>ok yes he's a bit of a loser in my eyes........hence the divorce!! lol</p><p></p><p>i had called him after going to doctor for myself friday and said listen i've got pnuemonnia do you think we can swap up weekends? don't want her around me sick like this and i could def. use some rest. his response nope.</p><p></p><p>yea it's only me who can look within not mr. shut the lights on and off 20 times.......</p><p></p><p>na my families out of their minds. hands down. yes have to shut the voices off in my head........lol</p><p></p><p>families family to me plain and simple. yet my families a little on the twisted side shall we say i'm sure like many others...lol</p><p></p><p>they disowned us or rather me this past summer for moving in with boyfriend when i lost my apt. due to slick moving of overspending for docs and cutting back hours to be home with her. so when they did it affected little difficult child so badly. they refused to invite us for christmas as long as i was bringing boyfriend (which they met once and loved by the way), they refused to call our home to say hi to kids it was a horror show many a night i spent crying over it and driving boyfriend insane. then i adjusted so did kids by november then suddenly prior to christmas they sent me a nasty email and i responded with here's the deal by cutting your ties with-me you have hurt your grandchildren. so i think it's a purely adolescent move on both your parts i could care less what you think of me yet hurting them is unacceptable unless you turn it around and quick you are both dead to me. i also added you should be thanking boyfriend for putting roof over girls head and i, i didnt' see anyone else in family offering shelter or support.</p><p></p><p>so for xmas boyfriend and i piled 5 kids in both our trucks and drove out to my loving family for xmas for kids sake not mine. </p><p></p><p>so now i love them from a distance mind you. i'm there for them when they need me but keep a safe distance so they can't hurt us again.</p><p></p><p>yea your right gotta not listen to anyone else i know her best. i guess all those sleepless nights catch up to you and you start second guessing yourself.</p><p></p><p>still in denial but working thru it.</p><p></p><p>thanks,</p><p>Jen <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 128574, member: 4514"] ok yes he's a bit of a loser in my eyes........hence the divorce!! lol i had called him after going to doctor for myself friday and said listen i've got pnuemonnia do you think we can swap up weekends? don't want her around me sick like this and i could def. use some rest. his response nope. yea it's only me who can look within not mr. shut the lights on and off 20 times....... na my families out of their minds. hands down. yes have to shut the voices off in my head........lol families family to me plain and simple. yet my families a little on the twisted side shall we say i'm sure like many others...lol they disowned us or rather me this past summer for moving in with boyfriend when i lost my apt. due to slick moving of overspending for docs and cutting back hours to be home with her. so when they did it affected little difficult child so badly. they refused to invite us for christmas as long as i was bringing boyfriend (which they met once and loved by the way), they refused to call our home to say hi to kids it was a horror show many a night i spent crying over it and driving boyfriend insane. then i adjusted so did kids by november then suddenly prior to christmas they sent me a nasty email and i responded with here's the deal by cutting your ties with-me you have hurt your grandchildren. so i think it's a purely adolescent move on both your parts i could care less what you think of me yet hurting them is unacceptable unless you turn it around and quick you are both dead to me. i also added you should be thanking boyfriend for putting roof over girls head and i, i didnt' see anyone else in family offering shelter or support. so for xmas boyfriend and i piled 5 kids in both our trucks and drove out to my loving family for xmas for kids sake not mine. so now i love them from a distance mind you. i'm there for them when they need me but keep a safe distance so they can't hurt us again. yea your right gotta not listen to anyone else i know her best. i guess all those sleepless nights catch up to you and you start second guessing yourself. still in denial but working thru it. thanks, Jen :) [/QUOTE]
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