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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 546981" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I'm sorry to hear that he didn't choose the road to better in this crossroad, at least yet. </p><p></p><p>With him it seems that there is a big gap between there he wants to be and wants to give impression he is, and there he is. And it is getting wider and it will be more and more difficult for him to uphold the image he wants to. His girlfriend getting enough and getting rid of him was something that was easy to predict. She is a college girl and he was starting to be a burden for her. His next girlfriend is likely to be more difficult child herself. And when his age group starts to graduate from college it will become more and more impossible for him to uphold this image he tries to do. I just hope that it is important enough for him to in some point actually start to go for those things in real, not just trying to keep image. When that point comes, it will be very important to remind him that he is still young, he has not lost things forever but can get back to that track. When he is 40 no one cares did he graduate from college when he was 22 or when he was 26. But first he has to admit his situation to himself and want change it. Or change his goals. He seems smart boy who is able to work hard, when he chooses. He can make a good life for himself without college. But first he has to get over of this playing pretence.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 546981, member: 14557"] I'm sorry to hear that he didn't choose the road to better in this crossroad, at least yet. With him it seems that there is a big gap between there he wants to be and wants to give impression he is, and there he is. And it is getting wider and it will be more and more difficult for him to uphold the image he wants to. His girlfriend getting enough and getting rid of him was something that was easy to predict. She is a college girl and he was starting to be a burden for her. His next girlfriend is likely to be more difficult child herself. And when his age group starts to graduate from college it will become more and more impossible for him to uphold this image he tries to do. I just hope that it is important enough for him to in some point actually start to go for those things in real, not just trying to keep image. When that point comes, it will be very important to remind him that he is still young, he has not lost things forever but can get back to that track. When he is 40 no one cares did he graduate from college when he was 22 or when he was 26. But first he has to admit his situation to himself and want change it. Or change his goals. He seems smart boy who is able to work hard, when he chooses. He can make a good life for himself without college. But first he has to get over of this playing pretence. [/QUOTE]
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