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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 547052" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>Dear Sig,</p><p>You have given your best to difficult child. I can't decide if this is a blessing or what. Life is hard and it gets harder when you are making stupid choices. When some of your mess is left out (school grades, tuition) it all piles up and then you are just left trapped. To see the forrest for the trees is hard. He took the avoidance path by staying with girlfriend and playing with her family. Now he has to face it again. I hope he faces it and cleans up. Their sence of reality is so distorted and the choices they make unrealistic when they have made such a mess. </p><p></p><p>You are doing great. Of course you are angry again. All those feelings come rushing back in with every crisis no matter how hard we have worked to detatch and to give their lives over. I hope he sees this as a second chance and doesn't just avoid the "clean-up" yet again. ((Hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 547052, member: 11001"] Dear Sig, You have given your best to difficult child. I can't decide if this is a blessing or what. Life is hard and it gets harder when you are making stupid choices. When some of your mess is left out (school grades, tuition) it all piles up and then you are just left trapped. To see the forrest for the trees is hard. He took the avoidance path by staying with girlfriend and playing with her family. Now he has to face it again. I hope he faces it and cleans up. Their sence of reality is so distorted and the choices they make unrealistic when they have made such a mess. You are doing great. Of course you are angry again. All those feelings come rushing back in with every crisis no matter how hard we have worked to detatch and to give their lives over. I hope he sees this as a second chance and doesn't just avoid the "clean-up" yet again. ((Hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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