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Goodness Gracious...how many years can this last?
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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 589427" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>I do know what you mean...Where was this "woman" when you took over after bio mom was not able to properely care for her son? Where was this woman during the darkest days...rehabs, arrests, probations, jail, injury, recovery etc? </p><p>She has just steppped into your lives and thinks she gets to call the shots now? I don't think so!!! Not so fast...You are the one who will love this "man/boy" through thick and thin...who know's how long she'll be in the picture. </p><p></p><p>You are his mother by all accounts. She should be applauding your efforts to help him be settled and succeed in life instead she doesn't appreciate your efforts and influence. </p><p></p><p>Can you talk to easy child/difficult child about all of this...Have you told him point blank, "I want you to be okay when I am no longer able to help?" I think he would be receptive...I think maybe he could talk to his girlfriend and let her know that you have only his best interest at heart...this is not a competition...but an act of love. </p><p></p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 589427, member: 3305"] I do know what you mean...Where was this "woman" when you took over after bio mom was not able to properely care for her son? Where was this woman during the darkest days...rehabs, arrests, probations, jail, injury, recovery etc? She has just steppped into your lives and thinks she gets to call the shots now? I don't think so!!! Not so fast...You are the one who will love this "man/boy" through thick and thin...who know's how long she'll be in the picture. You are his mother by all accounts. She should be applauding your efforts to help him be settled and succeed in life instead she doesn't appreciate your efforts and influence. Can you talk to easy child/difficult child about all of this...Have you told him point blank, "I want you to be okay when I am no longer able to help?" I think he would be receptive...I think maybe he could talk to his girlfriend and let her know that you have only his best interest at heart...this is not a competition...but an act of love. LMS [/QUOTE]
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