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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 605265" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Hi PG, </p><p></p><p>I guess I don't understand why difficult child wants Connor to have his (possible) father's name...does she think there is a future between the two of them? Is this some kind of power struggle now between you/husband and difficult child? </p><p></p><p>Wish there weren't ANY issues surrounding the birth or legalities. I would think difficult child would want to throw herself at the mercy of those who are helping her keep her baby in the family...Namely you and husband! </p><p>I SO agree with you that the "father" in this case should not give his name if he can't be a REAL father. </p><p></p><p>I grew up not knowing my dad. Met him at 17. Now my mom did carry the same last name as me since she did not remarry while raising me...but all it was WAS a sad reminder of what I was missing. I wish I had Had my grandparents last name (my mom's maiden name) as THEY were people I could be proud of! My dad was just an abusive alcoholic who was never even really MY dad. </p><p></p><p>I hope this gets worked out soon. </p><p>Meanwhile enjoy your camping trip! </p><p></p><p>Hugs PG...I am SO glad baby Connor will have your love in his life for as long as needed. </p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 605265, member: 3305"] Hi PG, I guess I don't understand why difficult child wants Connor to have his (possible) father's name...does she think there is a future between the two of them? Is this some kind of power struggle now between you/husband and difficult child? Wish there weren't ANY issues surrounding the birth or legalities. I would think difficult child would want to throw herself at the mercy of those who are helping her keep her baby in the family...Namely you and husband! I SO agree with you that the "father" in this case should not give his name if he can't be a REAL father. I grew up not knowing my dad. Met him at 17. Now my mom did carry the same last name as me since she did not remarry while raising me...but all it was WAS a sad reminder of what I was missing. I wish I had Had my grandparents last name (my mom's maiden name) as THEY were people I could be proud of! My dad was just an abusive alcoholic who was never even really MY dad. I hope this gets worked out soon. Meanwhile enjoy your camping trip! Hugs PG...I am SO glad baby Connor will have your love in his life for as long as needed. LMS [/QUOTE]
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