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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 181112" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Abbey, I really think you just need to spit it out to them. Tell them how much you love being able to see them more now and how grateful you are to be living close to family and in their home. And in the next breath, tell them that you also value your alone time. Simple tell them that you need to time to decompress and be by yourself to recoup from your day/and sometimes sleepless nights. Ask them politely to please phone you before coming over, that sometimes you're napping, showering or vacuuming in all your Godessness. . .</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Bottom line: Be honest now - do not make up excuses or stories because those just become another burden. If you can't be honest with those you love and those who love you, who can you be honest with?? </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4b0082">We live in a home that is owned by H's dad and thankfully, they live in FL, so there is no fears of them walking in on us. When they do visit, it's usually only for a few days and they usually stay at an Inn. Thankfully. I need my space at the end of the day!</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 181112, member: 2211"] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Abbey, I really think you just need to spit it out to them. Tell them how much you love being able to see them more now and how grateful you are to be living close to family and in their home. And in the next breath, tell them that you also value your alone time. Simple tell them that you need to time to decompress and be by yourself to recoup from your day/and sometimes sleepless nights. Ask them politely to please phone you before coming over, that sometimes you're napping, showering or vacuuming in all your Godessness. . .[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Bottom line: Be honest now - do not make up excuses or stories because those just become another burden. If you can't be honest with those you love and those who love you, who can you be honest with?? [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=#4b0082][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=#4b0082]We live in a home that is owned by H's dad and thankfully, they live in FL, so there is no fears of them walking in on us. When they do visit, it's usually only for a few days and they usually stay at an Inn. Thankfully. I need my space at the end of the day![/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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