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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 242470" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry that you have to listen to her. You are already doing enough by raising HER child. He sounds like a major handful, and you have already raised your child. Wiz would not be living with my parents except they ASKED for him, actually INSISTED on it and my dad had just retired from teaching jr high and Wiz was in jr high. He really pushed the issue and would have petitioned the court for custody, so I let him go live with them.</p><p></p><p>And I am very appreciative! I cannot believe your daughter thinks she will just homeschool him and let him be with-o anything "changing" him or making him conform to society! It just reminds me of my aunt who refused to discipline her bully of a child. She said sooner or later he would have to go to school and someone on the playground would "whomp" it out of him!!!!!!! She also said that she refused to take him to church because he wouldn't behave appropriately. "God would make him behave right in church when God wanted him to be there." She actually said that - nothing about teaching him appropriate behavior in ANY setting!!!</p><p></p><p>I think your daughter may never be living in reality. Your daughter will provide a very chaotic life for the child, but I certainly don't think you and your husband should be raising him. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry about the heart problem potential. I hope it ends up not being serious. And I hope you can petition for some respite - could the CASA worker get that for you?Esp since his father lost his rights to visits?</p><p></p><p>This little boy sounds like he has a lot of problems, more than you can handle and more than your difficult child WILL handle. I just pray she doesn't end up mistreating him or hurting him when his behavior is a problem for HER.</p><p></p><p>Have you suggested any other options for him to the CASA worker? Options other than him living with you?</p><p></p><p>I admire your restraint in NOT whomping your difficult child upside her head. It must be a very tempting thing, esp as she seems to do all she can to be horrible to you.</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs and tons of support!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 242470, member: 1233"] I am so sorry that you have to listen to her. You are already doing enough by raising HER child. He sounds like a major handful, and you have already raised your child. Wiz would not be living with my parents except they ASKED for him, actually INSISTED on it and my dad had just retired from teaching jr high and Wiz was in jr high. He really pushed the issue and would have petitioned the court for custody, so I let him go live with them. And I am very appreciative! I cannot believe your daughter thinks she will just homeschool him and let him be with-o anything "changing" him or making him conform to society! It just reminds me of my aunt who refused to discipline her bully of a child. She said sooner or later he would have to go to school and someone on the playground would "whomp" it out of him!!!!!!! She also said that she refused to take him to church because he wouldn't behave appropriately. "God would make him behave right in church when God wanted him to be there." She actually said that - nothing about teaching him appropriate behavior in ANY setting!!! I think your daughter may never be living in reality. Your daughter will provide a very chaotic life for the child, but I certainly don't think you and your husband should be raising him. I am sorry about the heart problem potential. I hope it ends up not being serious. And I hope you can petition for some respite - could the CASA worker get that for you?Esp since his father lost his rights to visits? This little boy sounds like he has a lot of problems, more than you can handle and more than your difficult child WILL handle. I just pray she doesn't end up mistreating him or hurting him when his behavior is a problem for HER. Have you suggested any other options for him to the CASA worker? Options other than him living with you? I admire your restraint in NOT whomping your difficult child upside her head. It must be a very tempting thing, esp as she seems to do all she can to be horrible to you. Gentle hugs and tons of support! [/QUOTE]
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