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Grandson's psychiatric evaluation, and silver linings.
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 575873" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I understand (now) that weird combination of concern and detachment. Those more flexible boundaries occur I think after we've been at this awhile...........I was talking about this is my therapy group the other night, as I've gotten more out of the enabling stuff, I can look at each individual issue and figure out how I want to proceed, using all the tools I've learned and making good healthy choices which are not coming from that enabling place. It sounds healthy to let yourself take some time before you jump in, figure out what's right for you. I think that's a great way to proceed, slowly. It's tough with a little guy so young. Sigh. I feel for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 575873, member: 13542"] I understand (now) that weird combination of concern and detachment. Those more flexible boundaries occur I think after we've been at this awhile...........I was talking about this is my therapy group the other night, as I've gotten more out of the enabling stuff, I can look at each individual issue and figure out how I want to proceed, using all the tools I've learned and making good healthy choices which are not coming from that enabling place. It sounds healthy to let yourself take some time before you jump in, figure out what's right for you. I think that's a great way to proceed, slowly. It's tough with a little guy so young. Sigh. I feel for you. [/QUOTE]
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