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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 721955" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>SWOT</p><p>Grief is a process. I have been through the loss of my father and mother within 14 months of each other, chaos and family turmoil and the issues with my son. </p><p>I was going so fast and not stopping to grieve at all. The Saturday of Canadian Thanksgiving the damn broke and I literally stayed in and cried for 24 hours. My eyes were swollen and I was exaustes. </p><p></p><p>Triggers are often and frequent now especially for my mother. Oddly I do not sense her or my farther. However, my Grandmother who died a decade ago is an amazing powerful presence. I adored my Grandmother and she loved me very much. </p><p></p><p>We know what we know and that which we don’t is what it is. The great mystery of the universe beyond our realm is a vast unknown. </p><p></p><p>I can hear my Grand Mother’s voice and feel her presence so strongly. Yet still radio silence from mom and dad. </p><p></p><p>The loss of parents no matter how old we are is such a tremendous impactful event. </p><p></p><p>Grief is a start and stall and a non linear emotional event. As with the strain our DCs put us through, it gets easier to manage over time. </p><p></p><p>I have some hats of my Dads. And a little dish of my moms. They are a comfort and trigger happy memories. Still tears flow. </p><p></p><p>Let yourself grieve in you own way and your own time. Enjoy the dreams they are precious!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 721955, member: 21895"] SWOT Grief is a process. I have been through the loss of my father and mother within 14 months of each other, chaos and family turmoil and the issues with my son. I was going so fast and not stopping to grieve at all. The Saturday of Canadian Thanksgiving the damn broke and I literally stayed in and cried for 24 hours. My eyes were swollen and I was exaustes. Triggers are often and frequent now especially for my mother. Oddly I do not sense her or my farther. However, my Grandmother who died a decade ago is an amazing powerful presence. I adored my Grandmother and she loved me very much. We know what we know and that which we don’t is what it is. The great mystery of the universe beyond our realm is a vast unknown. I can hear my Grand Mother’s voice and feel her presence so strongly. Yet still radio silence from mom and dad. The loss of parents no matter how old we are is such a tremendous impactful event. Grief is a start and stall and a non linear emotional event. As with the strain our DCs put us through, it gets easier to manage over time. I have some hats of my Dads. And a little dish of my moms. They are a comfort and trigger happy memories. Still tears flow. Let yourself grieve in you own way and your own time. Enjoy the dreams they are precious! [/QUOTE]
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