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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 142913" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Hon</p><p> </p><p>It's not self pity. It's grief.</p><p> </p><p>And as for what you're going thru now I don't know what stage you'd call it exactly, but I do know I went thru it after my grandmother passed. So I'm guessing it's probably normal.</p><p> </p><p>I know you have some @sses at work, but even they should be able to understand you just lost your sister. It's not necessarily going to be business as usual 100% of the time. If they have a heart at all it's not so hard to figure that out.</p><p> </p><p>But I know what you mean because there isn't anything more humilliating for me than to cry infront of another person. I imagine it would be worse in that situation. And the not feeling as if you can control it only makes it worse. Let's just say I "used" the bathroom often in the months after my grandmother's death. Got to where I'd scope them out beforehand, believe it or not.</p><p> </p><p>I'd discuss the possiblity of medications with your doctor and see what they think. It might be a big help to you, especially at work where you're already dealing with all the bull they pull on a reg basis.</p><p> </p><p>Post as much as you need or want. That's why we're here.</p><p> </p><p>(((((hugs))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 142913, member: 84"] Hon It's not self pity. It's grief. And as for what you're going thru now I don't know what stage you'd call it exactly, but I do know I went thru it after my grandmother passed. So I'm guessing it's probably normal. I know you have some @sses at work, but even they should be able to understand you just lost your sister. It's not necessarily going to be business as usual 100% of the time. If they have a heart at all it's not so hard to figure that out. But I know what you mean because there isn't anything more humilliating for me than to cry infront of another person. I imagine it would be worse in that situation. And the not feeling as if you can control it only makes it worse. Let's just say I "used" the bathroom often in the months after my grandmother's death. Got to where I'd scope them out beforehand, believe it or not. I'd discuss the possiblity of medications with your doctor and see what they think. It might be a big help to you, especially at work where you're already dealing with all the bull they pull on a reg basis. Post as much as you need or want. That's why we're here. (((((hugs)))))) [/QUOTE]
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