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<blockquote data-quote="tryinghard" data-source="post: 142991" data-attributes="member: 4570"><p>Steely,</p><p> </p><p>I agree with Marg. My doctor explained to me that in times of deep stress the body stops producing certain chemicals. Without these chemicals in balance the depression only worsen. My brother had an incident occur a few years ago that threw him in a horrible depression. He finally went and saw a doctor. After a few weeks he was functioning and sleeping through the night again. He said his only regret was waiting as long as he did to get help. AND this is from a guy that is totally against medicating!</p><p> </p><p>As for work.....do they supply any type of counseling for their employees? I know the last two companies I worked for did and a lot of people used it. Have you thought about seeing a lawyer? There could be things that they are doing or saying that is inappropriate. If you catch it now, it could protect you later on.</p><p> </p><p>Like most of us, we cannot just quit a job because we need the benefits and money! Maybe if you view this job as a short term thing it will help you get through the day? Go in everyday knowing that you will do you best, but leave it all at the door when you walk out! Detach the emotions from the job knowing that this is only a stepping stone to somewhere else and other job once you are ready to move on.</p><p> </p><p>I have followed your posts about your sister but never posted because I was afraid I would not say the right thing. But I do want to tell you that I think you are a strong and wise woman.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryinghard, post: 142991, member: 4570"] Steely, I agree with Marg. My doctor explained to me that in times of deep stress the body stops producing certain chemicals. Without these chemicals in balance the depression only worsen. My brother had an incident occur a few years ago that threw him in a horrible depression. He finally went and saw a doctor. After a few weeks he was functioning and sleeping through the night again. He said his only regret was waiting as long as he did to get help. AND this is from a guy that is totally against medicating! As for work.....do they supply any type of counseling for their employees? I know the last two companies I worked for did and a lot of people used it. Have you thought about seeing a lawyer? There could be things that they are doing or saying that is inappropriate. If you catch it now, it could protect you later on. Like most of us, we cannot just quit a job because we need the benefits and money! Maybe if you view this job as a short term thing it will help you get through the day? Go in everyday knowing that you will do you best, but leave it all at the door when you walk out! Detach the emotions from the job knowing that this is only a stepping stone to somewhere else and other job once you are ready to move on. I have followed your posts about your sister but never posted because I was afraid I would not say the right thing. But I do want to tell you that I think you are a strong and wise woman. [/QUOTE]
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