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<blockquote data-quote="daralex" data-source="post: 153466" data-attributes="member: 4467"><p>Oh I am crying along with you!!!!!!!!! I don't know that it ever goes away. I think in the end it is the worst feeling I have about difficult child. It is a daily mourning of what I know will not be. All those things I wanted for difficult child and for me too, that seem to crumble before my eyes each day. But MB said it best - the dreams we started with for our difficult child's may not come to pass, but there are other dreams that will take the place of the others. We get to rejoice in the small accomplishments that most mom's take for granted. Don't shun mother's day - celebrate. Celebrate the fact that we hang in there day after day, are very strong warrior women, and for better or worse - we can take pleasure in the small things that go well and trudge through those days where we think things can't get any worse. We are strong because we have to be for them - embrace the strength you have and scream from the roof tops. We are like big "weebles" (I'm dating myself) We may wobble but we don't fall down. If that's not something to celebrate I don't know what is. Hang in there!! Sending huge mother's day (((((HUGS)))))</p><p>-dara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="daralex, post: 153466, member: 4467"] Oh I am crying along with you!!!!!!!!! I don't know that it ever goes away. I think in the end it is the worst feeling I have about difficult child. It is a daily mourning of what I know will not be. All those things I wanted for difficult child and for me too, that seem to crumble before my eyes each day. But MB said it best - the dreams we started with for our difficult child's may not come to pass, but there are other dreams that will take the place of the others. We get to rejoice in the small accomplishments that most mom's take for granted. Don't shun mother's day - celebrate. Celebrate the fact that we hang in there day after day, are very strong warrior women, and for better or worse - we can take pleasure in the small things that go well and trudge through those days where we think things can't get any worse. We are strong because we have to be for them - embrace the strength you have and scream from the roof tops. We are like big "weebles" (I'm dating myself) We may wobble but we don't fall down. If that's not something to celebrate I don't know what is. Hang in there!! Sending huge mother's day (((((HUGS))))) -dara [/QUOTE]
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