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<blockquote data-quote="PonyGirl" data-source="post: 96245" data-attributes="member: 187"><p>If you don't want to go to see him at the jail, it's okay. You don't have to feel bad. Try not to waste time on Guilt. There's enough other valid emotions to get thru, you can toss Guilt right out the window.</p><p></p><p></p><p>It's another chance to work on those detachment skills. It's okay if your feelings are more important than his feelings. </p><p>It might even help your son reach his bottom a bit more, having no visitors - or at least having no visits from Mom. Might make him stop & think.</p><p></p><p>I used to pretend, too! I pretended difficult child was "away at college" like all the other kids his age :shocked: It helped.</p><p></p><p>Peace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PonyGirl, post: 96245, member: 187"] If you don't want to go to see him at the jail, it's okay. You don't have to feel bad. Try not to waste time on Guilt. There's enough other valid emotions to get thru, you can toss Guilt right out the window. It's another chance to work on those detachment skills. It's okay if your feelings are more important than his feelings. It might even help your son reach his bottom a bit more, having no visitors - or at least having no visits from Mom. Might make him stop & think. I used to pretend, too! I pretended difficult child was "away at college" like all the other kids his age [img]:shocked:[/img] It helped. Peace [/QUOTE]
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