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Grrrr, difficult child, back to her old tricks!
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 583707" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>easy child took difficult child out to dinner last night under the guise of discussing wedding plans. After only a few minutes of chit chat, difficult child began talking about her 'friend' who was going through the courts to get visitation rights to see his daughter, etc. easy child asked difficult child more without being too pushy and difficult child said she likes hanging out with is guy because she can talk to him and they are just friends. easy child told difficult child that it's E she should be talking to, to strengthen their bond, grow together, etc. </p><p></p><p>easy child said she went all 'big sister' on her, lol. She said that difficult child even became choked up at one point and declared that E is still the most important person in her life and she loves him and wants to get married...but that she should be able to a close friend. easy child said that's true, but right now your focus should be on wedding planning, saving money, and finding your own place to live...consider the friends she already has in her life. Discussing her life plans and stressors with this other guy is disrespectful to E and their relationship. easy child said that she also told difficult child that she needs to out loud reiterate her commitment to E by saying it directly to the exbf and then stop hanging out with him. difficult child said she knows. </p><p></p><p>While difficult child and easy child are not very close, difficult child has always looked up to easy child, so hopefully she will take what easy child said and use it as food for thought...and speak with E. easy child told her, "I get it, I do, but you really need to get your act together and figure out what is important to you and then make a plan for yourself...and stop smoking so much goddammed pot!" hahhaa, amen, easy child, amen. </p><p></p><p>Thank you for your support...I hope this helps difficult child get it together before it's too late.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 583707, member: 2211"] easy child took difficult child out to dinner last night under the guise of discussing wedding plans. After only a few minutes of chit chat, difficult child began talking about her 'friend' who was going through the courts to get visitation rights to see his daughter, etc. easy child asked difficult child more without being too pushy and difficult child said she likes hanging out with is guy because she can talk to him and they are just friends. easy child told difficult child that it's E she should be talking to, to strengthen their bond, grow together, etc. easy child said she went all 'big sister' on her, lol. She said that difficult child even became choked up at one point and declared that E is still the most important person in her life and she loves him and wants to get married...but that she should be able to a close friend. easy child said that's true, but right now your focus should be on wedding planning, saving money, and finding your own place to live...consider the friends she already has in her life. Discussing her life plans and stressors with this other guy is disrespectful to E and their relationship. easy child said that she also told difficult child that she needs to out loud reiterate her commitment to E by saying it directly to the exbf and then stop hanging out with him. difficult child said she knows. While difficult child and easy child are not very close, difficult child has always looked up to easy child, so hopefully she will take what easy child said and use it as food for thought...and speak with E. easy child told her, "I get it, I do, but you really need to get your act together and figure out what is important to you and then make a plan for yourself...and stop smoking so much goddammed pot!" hahhaa, amen, easy child, amen. Thank you for your support...I hope this helps difficult child get it together before it's too late. [/QUOTE]
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