I am seething. So angry at difficult child. Apparently, she has been spending time with an old friend, boyfriend. She claims she's not 'doing' anything, they are just talking and have an understanding that they are just friends. Well now, that may be her plan, but this guy has always had designs on difficult child. Remember Monkeyboy? Well, this guy is a runner up to Monkeyboy. They diddled about a year or so before difficult child even met E but after Monkeyboy, which was almost 5 years ago. It was short lived. For difficult child, he was someone who provided booze and weed. Use your imagination to understand what she provided for him. Gag. So four+ years passes, she's engaged to E. This loser had a girlfriend who had a baby but they broke up. Then he began trying to contact difficult child and she accepted his calls...and hanging out with him. I thought it was only twice. Apparently, it's been more frequent than that. E told me today that he is actually seeing a therapist to help get over his insecurity over difficult child spending time with this dude. E said she hung out with the loser THREE times last week! E has told her he would prefer if she didn't but she jumps down his throat. I should say that she is in a little mania right now and quit taking her medications cold turkey. E says he would never leave her or give her an ultimatum but he's always nauseous just thinking about it. He also snooped on her cell and saw that the dude suggested difficult child tell E that he was gay so she could sleep over! Omg, E said he wanted to put the kid through a wall! But he doesn't want to upset difficult child! What?! Anyway, here I am planning a wedding and she's out galavanting with this loser! I want to say something to her, but E asked me not to, so for now, I'm keeping quiet. But...I am not putting any deposits down on anything. I'm so disappointed that she could be so cavalier with E's heart. Obviously, she is not ready to get married, though she says she is. Right.