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Guess he doesn't think he's hurt me enough
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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 92064" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Karen, you can not walk away from him if you have something to say. That is the point. Say it and move on. For sure limit the contact, but if you have to see or speak to him, be sure to say whatever it is you are feeling or thinking at that time. It would be so easy to walk away & avoid him - that is why you have done it for years. </p><p></p><p>I, too, am guilty of this. Stuffing my feelings for the good of everyone but myself. I just want everyone to be happy. And if they are happy - I am. Truly it does make me happy to see the people I love happy. But, not at the expense of my own happiness. Fortunately, I do not think that has happened yet. But, I can see how that could spiral out of control.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 92064, member: 391"] Karen, you can not walk away from him if you have something to say. That is the point. Say it and move on. For sure limit the contact, but if you have to see or speak to him, be sure to say whatever it is you are feeling or thinking at that time. It would be so easy to walk away & avoid him - that is why you have done it for years. I, too, am guilty of this. Stuffing my feelings for the good of everyone but myself. I just want everyone to be happy. And if they are happy - I am. Truly it does make me happy to see the people I love happy. But, not at the expense of my own happiness. Fortunately, I do not think that has happened yet. But, I can see how that could spiral out of control. [/QUOTE]
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