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Guess he doesn't think he's hurt me enough
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 92243" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Good luck with the new you.</p><p></p><p>And so the well-adjusted man has quit counselling? I wondered how long he would keep it up. I suspect he's using the finality of you serving papers as the excuse he's been looking for to dump this counselling bulldust. </p><p></p><p>And in his head, he didn't REALLY need a counsellor (he just needs a good woman to take care of his needs), he was only doing it to please you and show he was working to get you back.</p><p>Why did/does he want you back? Because in his mind, being married to you PLUS playing the field was the best of both worlds. And by maliciously blaming you for his own inadequacies, he was totally blame free in everything he did.</p><p></p><p>He SO reminds me of my exBIL - he & my sister would go out (on increasingly rare social outings - friends were no longer inviting them as often). My sister would introduce brother in law to a colleague/friend of hers and brother in law would loudly say, "Oh, so YOU'RE Sharon? You're nothing like my wife said. You're not ugly at all!" And he's imply my sister had said worse, which anyone who knew her would know she would never do. Ex-brother in law thought he was being witty, but in fact he was a major embarrassment and really hurt my sister. Plus, most people in the room knew he was a philanderer, and if the current love of his life was not in the room it didn't stop him, he would go and try to pick someone up anyway.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 92243, member: 1991"] Good luck with the new you. And so the well-adjusted man has quit counselling? I wondered how long he would keep it up. I suspect he's using the finality of you serving papers as the excuse he's been looking for to dump this counselling bulldust. And in his head, he didn't REALLY need a counsellor (he just needs a good woman to take care of his needs), he was only doing it to please you and show he was working to get you back. Why did/does he want you back? Because in his mind, being married to you PLUS playing the field was the best of both worlds. And by maliciously blaming you for his own inadequacies, he was totally blame free in everything he did. He SO reminds me of my exBIL - he & my sister would go out (on increasingly rare social outings - friends were no longer inviting them as often). My sister would introduce brother in law to a colleague/friend of hers and brother in law would loudly say, "Oh, so YOU'RE Sharon? You're nothing like my wife said. You're not ugly at all!" And he's imply my sister had said worse, which anyone who knew her would know she would never do. Ex-brother in law thought he was being witty, but in fact he was a major embarrassment and really hurt my sister. Plus, most people in the room knew he was a philanderer, and if the current love of his life was not in the room it didn't stop him, he would go and try to pick someone up anyway. Marg [/QUOTE]
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