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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 220327" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>I believe, but I could be wrong as I dont know that US justice system, that the reason for her warrant is the original charge you made against her.</p><p> </p><p>She is 17 and if this case is dropped you could do something else legally. You could hire an youth transport firm to get her of the streets. I know how it functions here. Whenever the cops show up the streets are cleared. Private companies can do something the system cannot.</p><p> </p><p>If and when they get her, you need to have transported far away from her peer group. Not necessary into any kind of treatment, because she is in denial of her problems. Forced treatment would give her emontional scars lasting for decades and they can show to be exactly as damaging as AIDS.</p><p> </p><p>I know a collegue which had a son with drug problems down in California. He did not believe in the public system and he was too busy with his job. He took his son to a Mexico boarding school - a top place according to sources within the industy. The son became clean, but then without reasons some 4 years later his car ended up in the wrong lane hitting a truck head on. He died. Beside the truckdriver, people at a gas station saw the accident. The truck tried to avoid the car, but the son adjusted as it was done on purpose. His father talked with friend and it was then he discovered that the son had isolated himself and none - even girlfriends was allowed to close. Maybe he had lost faith in people. I dont know. But forced treatment has its risk.</p><p> </p><p>But as I stated before, she needs to far away from your home city so she can find herself in some kind of isolated environment. Do you have relatives out in the country? Maybe she should go there with a message that she can get a bus ticket home in 30 days.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry that the myspace idea did not pay off. But what about this young man? Does he have a myspace? I know also that you had some used a lot of time and money? But could this young man be tempted by some 500 or 1000 bucks if he deliveres her to a place where a transport firm could be waiting? As long as she is minor it is legal for you to use these private options. Once she turns 18 it would be a crime.</p><p> </p><p>We are talking a grey zone here but I would do it. My limit would only be to force her into some kind of treatment because I believe that people can only change what they acknowledge.</p><p> </p><p>I pray for you and your daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 220327, member: 6326"] I believe, but I could be wrong as I dont know that US justice system, that the reason for her warrant is the original charge you made against her. She is 17 and if this case is dropped you could do something else legally. You could hire an youth transport firm to get her of the streets. I know how it functions here. Whenever the cops show up the streets are cleared. Private companies can do something the system cannot. If and when they get her, you need to have transported far away from her peer group. Not necessary into any kind of treatment, because she is in denial of her problems. Forced treatment would give her emontional scars lasting for decades and they can show to be exactly as damaging as AIDS. I know a collegue which had a son with drug problems down in California. He did not believe in the public system and he was too busy with his job. He took his son to a Mexico boarding school - a top place according to sources within the industy. The son became clean, but then without reasons some 4 years later his car ended up in the wrong lane hitting a truck head on. He died. Beside the truckdriver, people at a gas station saw the accident. The truck tried to avoid the car, but the son adjusted as it was done on purpose. His father talked with friend and it was then he discovered that the son had isolated himself and none - even girlfriends was allowed to close. Maybe he had lost faith in people. I dont know. But forced treatment has its risk. But as I stated before, she needs to far away from your home city so she can find herself in some kind of isolated environment. Do you have relatives out in the country? Maybe she should go there with a message that she can get a bus ticket home in 30 days. I am sorry that the myspace idea did not pay off. But what about this young man? Does he have a myspace? I know also that you had some used a lot of time and money? But could this young man be tempted by some 500 or 1000 bucks if he deliveres her to a place where a transport firm could be waiting? As long as she is minor it is legal for you to use these private options. Once she turns 18 it would be a crime. We are talking a grey zone here but I would do it. My limit would only be to force her into some kind of treatment because I believe that people can only change what they acknowledge. I pray for you and your daughter. [/QUOTE]
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