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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 726188" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Does your daughter have borderline pd, hon? If so I know of a forum, much like this one, but geared toward those who love somebody who has this maddening love you/don't love you disorder. It is very difficult because they have severe emotional dysregulation and can be sweet as honey one day or minute than seem almost evil the next. It is not a mood disorder like bipolar but a personality disorder that others deal with too. I think this is the right address, in case you are interested.</p><p></p><p>It is called borderline central. The very first page will give you a good idea if this is what you are dealing with and what books you can buy if you are. I am pretty sure my mother had it. She could be happily chatting about my prom dress one hour than later scare me out of a sound sleep at 3am to scream at me about something she had been angry about three weeks ago that I thought was over. Think of the wire hanger scene in Mommy Dearest only she didn't hit me...it was just ugly words.</p><p></p><p>She called me horrible names and seemed to deviate between seeing me as worthy then more often useless and she was cruel. Our relationship was not good partly because I dared to challenge her and borderlines don't handle that well. medications don't help much and most deny they have a problem. Often they use substances or do self harm.</p><p></p><p>It is much worse than bipolar which can be treated and often easily controlled. But there are ways to deal with people who have borderline and "Walking on Eggshells" is a good book for anyone who loves a totally unpredictable person whether they have the label or are just crazily unreliable in their moods and responses to us. Wish I had had this help as a young person. My mother never went for help and had no diagnosis but she had many traits of this.</p><p></p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.bpdcentral.com" target="_blank">www.bpdcentral.com</a></p><p></p><p>Love and hugs. Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 726188, member: 1550"] Does your daughter have borderline pd, hon? If so I know of a forum, much like this one, but geared toward those who love somebody who has this maddening love you/don't love you disorder. It is very difficult because they have severe emotional dysregulation and can be sweet as honey one day or minute than seem almost evil the next. It is not a mood disorder like bipolar but a personality disorder that others deal with too. I think this is the right address, in case you are interested. It is called borderline central. The very first page will give you a good idea if this is what you are dealing with and what books you can buy if you are. I am pretty sure my mother had it. She could be happily chatting about my prom dress one hour than later scare me out of a sound sleep at 3am to scream at me about something she had been angry about three weeks ago that I thought was over. Think of the wire hanger scene in Mommy Dearest only she didn't hit me...it was just ugly words. She called me horrible names and seemed to deviate between seeing me as worthy then more often useless and she was cruel. Our relationship was not good partly because I dared to challenge her and borderlines don't handle that well. medications don't help much and most deny they have a problem. Often they use substances or do self harm. It is much worse than bipolar which can be treated and often easily controlled. But there are ways to deal with people who have borderline and "Walking on Eggshells" is a good book for anyone who loves a totally unpredictable person whether they have the label or are just crazily unreliable in their moods and responses to us. Wish I had had this help as a young person. My mother never went for help and had no diagnosis but she had many traits of this. [URL='http://www.bpdcentral.com']www.bpdcentral.com[/URL] Love and hugs. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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