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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 726229" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Thank you Tanya for you kind responce. Even though my son has passed I still feel the love we share. I believe he sends me his love from heaven. I so miss his kind loving nature and his deep sincere concern for me. I was so blessed to have him in my life. Before he went to bed I always told him that I was so lucky that God put him in my life as my son. I also told my daughter this before she went to sleep. The really hard part of all this is that she really was a sweet child until age 18. I did see some unruly behavior from her here and there but not anything to be alarmed about. Then she turned 18 left for college and the bottom dropped out.</p><p>I am so sorry that your son is your only child and he grieves you the way he does. It is so important for people to walk peacefully with each other on this life journey that goes by all to fast. One of the words that keep coming to mind with my BiPolar (BP) mother in law is 'invasive'. I feel my daughter is invasive. When over at my home she opens mail that looks interesting to her, takes what she wants, reads stuff in my office. I tell her for the 100th time that she is getting into my personal space and boundries. Last time I was out of town she came over to my house and took a table without asking. I told her off about it and she said I was being too nit picky. I told her I would not think of just going over to her home and taking what I pleased without asking first. I want the same. These are things I have told her before. Next time I will change the codes to get into the house so I can go out of town with a clear mind. </p><p>I know it had to be hard for you Tanya to not talk to your son for over one year. I also know that a lot of healing had to have happened since you did not have to ride that wicked roller coaster ride. I went 3 months and did not talk with my daughter, I did not answer the phone or door, I cut all communication even took my voice off the cell and home phone. But in the pain of not communicating it felt good to not ride that roller coaster or listen to the awful lies or protect myself from being ripped off. This last bout with her was hard and I was thinking of just doing another 3 month break but decided to leave the text open. That caused grief because she slammed me on FB saying how it is my fault that I interpret things wrong. How it is on me because I jump to conclusions. It is bad enough to argue but when someone takes their dirty laundry on FB it is horrible.. Each time I read someones comments it says so much about them. My daughters posts say what she does not want everyone to know, what a mean person she can be. Happy New Year.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 726229, member: 22416"] Thank you Tanya for you kind responce. Even though my son has passed I still feel the love we share. I believe he sends me his love from heaven. I so miss his kind loving nature and his deep sincere concern for me. I was so blessed to have him in my life. Before he went to bed I always told him that I was so lucky that God put him in my life as my son. I also told my daughter this before she went to sleep. The really hard part of all this is that she really was a sweet child until age 18. I did see some unruly behavior from her here and there but not anything to be alarmed about. Then she turned 18 left for college and the bottom dropped out. I am so sorry that your son is your only child and he grieves you the way he does. It is so important for people to walk peacefully with each other on this life journey that goes by all to fast. One of the words that keep coming to mind with my BiPolar (BP) mother in law is 'invasive'. I feel my daughter is invasive. When over at my home she opens mail that looks interesting to her, takes what she wants, reads stuff in my office. I tell her for the 100th time that she is getting into my personal space and boundries. Last time I was out of town she came over to my house and took a table without asking. I told her off about it and she said I was being too nit picky. I told her I would not think of just going over to her home and taking what I pleased without asking first. I want the same. These are things I have told her before. Next time I will change the codes to get into the house so I can go out of town with a clear mind. I know it had to be hard for you Tanya to not talk to your son for over one year. I also know that a lot of healing had to have happened since you did not have to ride that wicked roller coaster ride. I went 3 months and did not talk with my daughter, I did not answer the phone or door, I cut all communication even took my voice off the cell and home phone. But in the pain of not communicating it felt good to not ride that roller coaster or listen to the awful lies or protect myself from being ripped off. This last bout with her was hard and I was thinking of just doing another 3 month break but decided to leave the text open. That caused grief because she slammed me on FB saying how it is my fault that I interpret things wrong. How it is on me because I jump to conclusions. It is bad enough to argue but when someone takes their dirty laundry on FB it is horrible.. Each time I read someones comments it says so much about them. My daughters posts say what she does not want everyone to know, what a mean person she can be. Happy New Year. [/QUOTE]
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