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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 726237" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You are too hard on yourself, dear. We all lose it and the worse they do the louder we roar. And I have tried to speak calmly to my kids. I can do that easily now because the only one that sometimes is not in control of himself at least would not steal from me and he does love me....in younger years I was not so patient with him or my daughter who used to use drugs. The lungs got exercise back then.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is very challenging. I think you're doing the very best you can. Or anyone could.</p><p></p><p>As for who is in charge of your medical decisions, I hear you. We picked our most empathetic child for that and she also lives close. You have to look for somebody responsible and empathetic and before you get sick, which hopefully will not happen for a long time, make sure that your will is airtight, exactly how you want it and don't let her see it or know where it is. One of your nieces sound great! Maybe if you need long term hospitalization, you should plan to go near them if your husband is gone. Yuk, I hate thinking about this. </p><p> Morbid!</p><p></p><p>You have your head on straight. I am honestly so sorry that your daughter can not be trusted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 726237, member: 1550"] You are too hard on yourself, dear. We all lose it and the worse they do the louder we roar. And I have tried to speak calmly to my kids. I can do that easily now because the only one that sometimes is not in control of himself at least would not steal from me and he does love me....in younger years I was not so patient with him or my daughter who used to use drugs. The lungs got exercise back then. Your daughter is very challenging. I think you're doing the very best you can. Or anyone could. As for who is in charge of your medical decisions, I hear you. We picked our most empathetic child for that and she also lives close. You have to look for somebody responsible and empathetic and before you get sick, which hopefully will not happen for a long time, make sure that your will is airtight, exactly how you want it and don't let her see it or know where it is. One of your nieces sound great! Maybe if you need long term hospitalization, you should plan to go near them if your husband is gone. Yuk, I hate thinking about this. Morbid! You have your head on straight. I am honestly so sorry that your daughter can not be trusted. [/QUOTE]
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