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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 737150" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>My dear Copa the sting in your eye and the arrow in your heart are palpable with every work you write.</p><p></p><p>There are no answers to the questions you ask. There is life after pain and a separation of child and self.</p><p>I know the pain of those words your son spoke. My i n sons last works before 30 days in isolated rehab with only 1 phone call a day ....to us ....wish it hadn’t been us. Hisbterna if you endearment went something like this</p><p>F U YOUR NOT MY MOTHER</p><p>I WISH I HAD NEVR BEEN BORN</p><p>I WISH I WAS THE BABY EATEN BY YOUR TUMOR AND I WISH THE CANCER KILLED TOU.</p><p>the pain the grief and the reality of it all is so very painful. </p><p>I wish I could find a magic eraser and take all of our pain away. I know I can’t.</p><p></p><p>I reached for tools to help me survive. One was this amazing site. I read everything I could get my hands on, I joined Naranon and I slowly ever si slowly began to detach...with love and regain me.</p><p></p><p>I was swalled whole by my son and his addiction. </p><p></p><p>I am in a better place, and granted so is he for the present time.</p><p></p><p>Wh n he wasn’t I learned to wade through the pain and find a way for myself to thrive. </p><p></p><p>RE introduced me to Pima and her works. They were some very valueless tools that helped me gain perspective and survive.</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/sLw5QFaFUgI" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/sLw5QFaFUgI</a></p><p>If this link does not work please let me know. This woman truly spoke to my heart and helped me heal.</p><p></p><p>One day at a time and what food did worry every do?</p><p></p><p>I keep you in my thoughts and my version of prayers.</p><p></p><p>Some times the most loving thing we can do is to not help them kill themselves. </p><p></p><p>I remember reading Gabor Matte’s work and throwing it down out of anger, how dare he say my sone was in pain...from what?! How dare he suggest this. And the reality is, it is my sons pain and he is in pain. He needs to msnGevrhis Journey. </p><p></p><p>If love could cure this none of us would be here. </p><p>I wish so much that I could take you from n where you are emotionally to a place of calm understanding and love. As impossible as this may seem. It is doable. </p><p></p><p>So many here helped to teach me this. </p><p></p><p>Stay strong and remember. Nothing changes is nothing changes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 737150, member: 21895"] My dear Copa the sting in your eye and the arrow in your heart are palpable with every work you write. There are no answers to the questions you ask. There is life after pain and a separation of child and self. I know the pain of those words your son spoke. My i n sons last works before 30 days in isolated rehab with only 1 phone call a day ....to us ....wish it hadn’t been us. Hisbterna if you endearment went something like this F U YOUR NOT MY MOTHER I WISH I HAD NEVR BEEN BORN I WISH I WAS THE BABY EATEN BY YOUR TUMOR AND I WISH THE CANCER KILLED TOU. the pain the grief and the reality of it all is so very painful. I wish I could find a magic eraser and take all of our pain away. I know I can’t. I reached for tools to help me survive. One was this amazing site. I read everything I could get my hands on, I joined Naranon and I slowly ever si slowly began to detach...with love and regain me. I was swalled whole by my son and his addiction. I am in a better place, and granted so is he for the present time. Wh n he wasn’t I learned to wade through the pain and find a way for myself to thrive. RE introduced me to Pima and her works. They were some very valueless tools that helped me gain perspective and survive. [URL]https://youtu.be/sLw5QFaFUgI[/URL] If this link does not work please let me know. This woman truly spoke to my heart and helped me heal. One day at a time and what food did worry every do? I keep you in my thoughts and my version of prayers. Some times the most loving thing we can do is to not help them kill themselves. I remember reading Gabor Matte’s work and throwing it down out of anger, how dare he say my sone was in pain...from what?! How dare he suggest this. And the reality is, it is my sons pain and he is in pain. He needs to msnGevrhis Journey. If love could cure this none of us would be here. I wish so much that I could take you from n where you are emotionally to a place of calm understanding and love. As impossible as this may seem. It is doable. So many here helped to teach me this. Stay strong and remember. Nothing changes is nothing changes. [/QUOTE]
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