Thanks, Walrus. I'm doing great now, but I had to do an entire grieving process to come out the other end. It would be harder if he teased me with contact, like your step daughter does. For my own sake, if that went on, eventually I would have terminated contact myself. At least no contact means you can grieve and move on. Not that it's easy, but it can be done. Thank God I have other kids. Yes, it helps tons. I hope your husband has other kids who love him right. Poor guy. I so feel for him.
I really am not concerned about giving him anything at all. He is not sentimentality attached to us. But I probably will tell the kids to send him some pictures.
Anyhow, thanks. I will have lawyer word it right.
Thanks for understanding.
