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<blockquote data-quote="sweetiegirlz" data-source="post: 82263" data-attributes="member: 4140"><p>Thank you to all. I know I am not crazy. It helps a million x10 just knowing that someone else has gone where i am now treading!</p><p></p><p>GUILT is still a major point in the situation. My guilt, not hers because I don't think she feels any. As I find it very hard to hug her or tell her that I love her. No wonder she's jealous of her younger sib, a easy child, who gets tons of affection, while her difficult child is getting yelled at punished and chastised. </p><p></p><p>Can't you just hear it? </p><p>difficult child: "I hate you, you're the meanest mom in the world and you're stupid and ugly, and I can't wait to live with daddy!"</p><p></p><p>me: " awww i love u so much darling come heres and gives mommie a big ole hug and kisssss! " </p><p></p><p>Not happening folks!Can't bring myself to do this and doubt if she'd submit to a hug. LOL I know that sounds cruel but I'm assuming there's more parenting skills to be learned on my end too.</p><p></p><p>Yesterday and today is just the beginning of the help I am seeking for my difficult child. I am hoping that her life will change dramatically.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sweetiegirlz, post: 82263, member: 4140"] Thank you to all. I know I am not crazy. It helps a million x10 just knowing that someone else has gone where i am now treading! GUILT is still a major point in the situation. My guilt, not hers because I don't think she feels any. As I find it very hard to hug her or tell her that I love her. No wonder she's jealous of her younger sib, a easy child, who gets tons of affection, while her difficult child is getting yelled at punished and chastised. Can't you just hear it? difficult child: "I hate you, you're the meanest mom in the world and you're stupid and ugly, and I can't wait to live with daddy!" me: " awww i love u so much darling come heres and gives mommie a big ole hug and kisssss! " Not happening folks!Can't bring myself to do this and doubt if she'd submit to a hug. LOL I know that sounds cruel but I'm assuming there's more parenting skills to be learned on my end too. Yesterday and today is just the beginning of the help I am seeking for my difficult child. I am hoping that her life will change dramatically. [/QUOTE]
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