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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 183370" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>BBK- if this is the biggest thing you have to feel guilty about, then you are a saint!!</p><p></p><p>I know we all try to find more effective and constructive ways to discipline our kids, but shoot, sometimes the talking just doesn't do the trick. And, there is a difference between spanking and beating- or even uncontrollable spanking. There are words that can be said that are worse than spankings, I'm sure you know that. </p><p></p><p>Cut yourself some slack. And don't feel so guilty- especially in front of Tink. Maybe tell her that you are sorry for handling things the way you did, but I would be careful not to open the door for her to use guilt on you for this in the future- after all- you said she went to the door to scream about it. I wouldn't want to see this turn into her daring you to spank her in the future or pushing you that far just because she knows how upset you'll be afterwards if you do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 183370, member: 3699"] BBK- if this is the biggest thing you have to feel guilty about, then you are a saint!! I know we all try to find more effective and constructive ways to discipline our kids, but shoot, sometimes the talking just doesn't do the trick. And, there is a difference between spanking and beating- or even uncontrollable spanking. There are words that can be said that are worse than spankings, I'm sure you know that. Cut yourself some slack. And don't feel so guilty- especially in front of Tink. Maybe tell her that you are sorry for handling things the way you did, but I would be careful not to open the door for her to use guilt on you for this in the future- after all- you said she went to the door to scream about it. I wouldn't want to see this turn into her daring you to spank her in the future or pushing you that far just because she knows how upset you'll be afterwards if you do. [/QUOTE]
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