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<blockquote data-quote="MandaC" data-source="post: 764373" data-attributes="member: 32289"><p>Thankyou. Yes, i now know, i cannot be around him. Whatever causes these rages wether it be mental illness mixed with drug abuse, i refuse to put my life in danger any more. Yes, i have tried everything to help him , everyone has from having him sectioned under the mental health act , trying to petsuade him to comply with help. He refuses and that i cant understand because his life the way it is is miserable and he does know he needs help. He can organise job interviews and many other things but not an appointment with the doctor. </p><p>Last night he phoned me. The purpose of the phone call was to confirm that i hadnt told the police. No apology until i said i hadnt told the police but if he came near me again that i would. His answer to that was " okay, i wont and im sorry" . That was all.</p><p>I am absolutely broken hearted and sick to my stomach. I know i cant be around him until theres definate evidence of wanting to change and evidence of hom seeking real help but i feel so guilty today. Last night after his communication i let rip by text. Id had a few glasses of wine. I felt anger. I said things iv never said before to him, called him a junkie, a violent animal to name but a few names. And today i feel terrible that if his self esteem is low already il have made it worse. Can anyone advise on this...the guilt i feel . Iv never said anything like that before to him. Im usually pleading, and being nice, walking on egg shells. And i cant get rid of the worry that something bads going to happen to him. Can anyone suggest some methods of stopping these thoughts consuming my every moment. Thanks. I appreciate all advice and communication on this site. I dont have the hang of it yet but i put these questions to Nomad and anyone else that reads my posts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MandaC, post: 764373, member: 32289"] Thankyou. Yes, i now know, i cannot be around him. Whatever causes these rages wether it be mental illness mixed with drug abuse, i refuse to put my life in danger any more. Yes, i have tried everything to help him , everyone has from having him sectioned under the mental health act , trying to petsuade him to comply with help. He refuses and that i cant understand because his life the way it is is miserable and he does know he needs help. He can organise job interviews and many other things but not an appointment with the doctor. Last night he phoned me. The purpose of the phone call was to confirm that i hadnt told the police. No apology until i said i hadnt told the police but if he came near me again that i would. His answer to that was " okay, i wont and im sorry" . That was all. I am absolutely broken hearted and sick to my stomach. I know i cant be around him until theres definate evidence of wanting to change and evidence of hom seeking real help but i feel so guilty today. Last night after his communication i let rip by text. Id had a few glasses of wine. I felt anger. I said things iv never said before to him, called him a junkie, a violent animal to name but a few names. And today i feel terrible that if his self esteem is low already il have made it worse. Can anyone advise on this...the guilt i feel . Iv never said anything like that before to him. Im usually pleading, and being nice, walking on egg shells. And i cant get rid of the worry that something bads going to happen to him. Can anyone suggest some methods of stopping these thoughts consuming my every moment. Thanks. I appreciate all advice and communication on this site. I dont have the hang of it yet but i put these questions to Nomad and anyone else that reads my posts. [/QUOTE]
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