It is said that God will not allow us to deal with a situation we are not strong enough to handle. This is for sure a rough one and I am hoping that each time we have dealt with it, we have taken baby steps to learn and deal differently. Hard to break old patterns. Thank you very much for your advice and for sharing. It helps to know that there are folks out there who have had similar struggles and come out of them with new vision and direction.
No money given-for sure will not go that route. I am hoping that my grandbabies will be able to visit us and spend quality time.
For now, focusing on our son and supporting his dreams for the future!