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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 666813" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Welcome New Leaf,</p><p></p><p>I join with the others in commending your strength and your clarity.</p><p></p><p>I think you are wise to have this approach: Your grandchildren know you love them and they know you are there for them. As grandparents. They, more than anyone, understand their situations. Coming back to your home like a revolving door may confuse and stress them even more.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter has made a mockery of the restraining order. You did your best to help everybody. She did her best to undue everything you did.</p><p></p><p>By your decision, you are protecting the entire family. Your daughter and her children, too, as well as your son and yourselves. It seems that as long as you have had an open door policy your daughter has not taken it on herself to solve her situation. Perhaps your home has even served as a safety valve, so that the destructive relationship can continue. Standing firm, may help everybody involved.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting. We are here for you. We are glad you are here with us now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 666813, member: 18958"] Welcome New Leaf, I join with the others in commending your strength and your clarity. I think you are wise to have this approach: Your grandchildren know you love them and they know you are there for them. As grandparents. They, more than anyone, understand their situations. Coming back to your home like a revolving door may confuse and stress them even more. Your daughter has made a mockery of the restraining order. You did your best to help everybody. She did her best to undue everything you did. By your decision, you are protecting the entire family. Your daughter and her children, too, as well as your son and yourselves. It seems that as long as you have had an open door policy your daughter has not taken it on herself to solve her situation. Perhaps your home has even served as a safety valve, so that the destructive relationship can continue. Standing firm, may help everybody involved. Keep posting. We are here for you. We are glad you are here with us now. [/QUOTE]
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