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Just putting my 2 cents in I'm new to all this and im just starting my journey but the part about how you let his brother stay and if he did the same would that make it ok for him to stay that stuck with me he sounds like my son knows exactly what buttons to push very smart of him I know that must of caught you off guard if your like me that must of really hurt so sorry for you but I've had very similar things thrown at me and worse I know it's easy to say but you have to stand up to that trust me if he's saying stuff like that now it will get worse my son told me that if I put him out if he became a failure it would be all my fault you can't reason with that mentality I've tried set a boundary you can stick with no matter how small and follow it up then you can build on that but it has to start somewhere take what you like from this I feel your pain keep us posted

<blockquote data-quote="youngfool" data-source="post: 685713" data-attributes="member: 20219"><p>Just putting my 2 cents in I'm new to all this and im just starting my journey but the part about how you let his brother stay and if he did the same would that make it ok for him to stay that stuck with me he sounds like my son knows exactly what buttons to push very smart of him I know that must of caught you off guard if your like me that must of really hurt so sorry for you but&nbsp; I've had very similar things thrown at me and worse I know it's easy to say but you have to stand up to that trust me if he's saying stuff like that now it will get worse my son told me that if I put him out if he became a failure it would be all my fault you can't reason with that mentality I've tried set a boundary you can stick with no matter how small and follow it up then you can build on that but it has to start somewhere take what you like from this I feel your pain keep us posted</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="youngfool, post: 685713, member: 20219"] Just putting my 2 cents in I'm new to all this and im just starting my journey but the part about how you let his brother stay and if he did the same would that make it ok for him to stay that stuck with me he sounds like my son knows exactly what buttons to push very smart of him I know that must of caught you off guard if your like me that must of really hurt so sorry for you but I've had very similar things thrown at me and worse I know it's easy to say but you have to stand up to that trust me if he's saying stuff like that now it will get worse my son told me that if I put him out if he became a failure it would be all my fault you can't reason with that mentality I've tried set a boundary you can stick with no matter how small and follow it up then you can build on that but it has to start somewhere take what you like from this I feel your pain keep us posted [/QUOTE]

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