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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 164137" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>That is totally TOTALLY irresponsible on the RTCs part. Jeez. We adopted a child at age 11. He sexually acted out on my two younger kids the entire three years he was with us, and threatened to kill them and "burn the house down cuz I don't care if I die" if they said anything. So they didn't. And we didn't know. After we found out, he was gone THAT DAY and we said we never wanted anything to do with him again. Sexual predators do not get cured (or so his caseworker told us). They can go into treatment, but they need to be watched their entire lives. Most can not even explain why they do it. Our son does not remember being abused himself, but he obviously was. We found out he was acting out on other children for as far back as he can remember, and nobody knew--he was GOOD at acting like a nice, normal kid. He even fooled his psychiatrists who said he was "well balanced" (at least in the adoption report before we decided to adopt him. Hahahaha). </p><p>At any rate, document it. And make sure it never happens again. And even if nobody else understands, I understand why you don't ever want to see him again. We moved and changed our phone number so that this child (now eighteen and on the prowl, I suppose) can't find us and our other kids, who are terrified of him. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 164137, member: 1550"] That is totally TOTALLY irresponsible on the RTCs part. Jeez. We adopted a child at age 11. He sexually acted out on my two younger kids the entire three years he was with us, and threatened to kill them and "burn the house down cuz I don't care if I die" if they said anything. So they didn't. And we didn't know. After we found out, he was gone THAT DAY and we said we never wanted anything to do with him again. Sexual predators do not get cured (or so his caseworker told us). They can go into treatment, but they need to be watched their entire lives. Most can not even explain why they do it. Our son does not remember being abused himself, but he obviously was. We found out he was acting out on other children for as far back as he can remember, and nobody knew--he was GOOD at acting like a nice, normal kid. He even fooled his psychiatrists who said he was "well balanced" (at least in the adoption report before we decided to adopt him. Hahahaha). At any rate, document it. And make sure it never happens again. And even if nobody else understands, I understand why you don't ever want to see him again. We moved and changed our phone number so that this child (now eighteen and on the prowl, I suppose) can't find us and our other kids, who are terrified of him. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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